Just try to understand the usefulness of “lol” here and there. Putting “lol” into every sentence, or even every few sentences, makes you look like a half-assed, not-so-funny, would-be comedian!Instead, use it rather sparingly and interchangeably with the smiley faces. Otherwise, you’ll come off as trying too hard to be funny and look weak.So sometimes, when you say something she might take as being serious through text, if you just throw in a smiley face at the end, it can completely change the mood of the text. ” This message is a little too serious for a question like that.For example, if you want to tease a girl but not come across as being too serious, you can say something like “Julie! It’s been forever since I’ve seen you :)” A text like this shows her that you’re inquiring about her and would like to know where she’s been lately. She’s so much more likely to reply to the first as opposed to the second, which is a little too pressing.A good “lol” placed in a text message shows a woman you’re making a joke.It’s not literally meant to mean that you’re “laughing out loud,” but it has transformed more into meaning that you’re joking or find something funny.Really before even thinking about what to text a girl, timing is perhaps the most import part of any good text game.Timing is the space in between texts that you and she take to reply back to each other’s messages.
For me, waiting to hear back from people I had texted made me very restless.
Most high-status or quality girls have a lot going on in their lives; therefore, they tend to be busy a lot of the time and tend to take longer to reply back to your texts. If she takes, say, half an hour to reply back to your initial text, and you reply within a minute or two of her response, you come off as very needy.
(It’s either this, or they just want to appear busy and will take their time in replying.) This is okay. (You also come off as a bit creepy, like you were just staring at your phone like some kind of Fatal Attraction-type character, just waiting for her to answer you, and when she did, you answered her right away.) I’m telling you right now that, if you do anything resembling this, you will totally creep the woman out. Now I take my time in responding to a woman, and by doing so, I create intrigue and interest as well as more attraction. A simple rule is to take as long (if not longer) to reply to her texts as she takes to reply to yours.
What I started to do was just put my phone on silent and leave it on my charger, upside down.
This way, it would charge, it would be on, and I would get the text message.