Skills are built on reference experiences, not exclusively on results. Being shy and introverted makes no difference in getting girls. You must push girls out of their comfort zone for them to sleep with you.If you find yourself on your back foot because of your shyness, you must know the window for approaching closes with hesitation. In other words you must focus primarily on skill building, not on results. But more to the shy guy who can't find his way to approaching women.That that means to you is you must be able to approach women anywhere, anytime without hesitation. -------------------------------- I will be next: September 13-15, 2013: Munich, Germany September 20-22, 2013: London, United Kingdom September 27-29, 2013: Oslo, Norway October 11-13, 2013: London, United Kingdom October 18-20, 2013: Frankfurt, Germany October 25-27, 2013: London, United Kingdom (Special Daygame Only Bootcamp) November 1-3, 2013: Zurich, Switzerland November 8-10, 2013: Amsterdam, Netherlands November 15-17, 2013: London, United Kingdom November 22-24, 2013: Gothenburg, Sweden November 29-December 1, 2013: London, United Kingdom December 6-8, 2013: Copenhagen, Denmark Join over 90,000 people who receive our exclusive weekly tips on how to attract and bed women, PLUS get a FREE 2 hour Crash Course that will change the way you think about dating and success with women for the rest of your life!
What this article doesn't address is the distinction between introversion and shyness (Quiet by Susan Cain has some interesting points on this topic).
There’s talk around the internet that the best guys are on Bumble, and broadly speaking, I tend to agree.
(Listen to the two really great Why Oh Why podcast episodes about it!
However, you might want to start off by admitting to her your awkwardness by saying, "I know this is awkward but I just wanted to say hi..." and move one with the interaction. You might find your most awkward approaches become the best ones. Most interactions won't go anywhere unless you push them.
Remember she might have her reasons not to talk to you, even when you are doing a near perfect job. I know you are shy but you might delaying your skill building by meeting girls in a "rejection safe" way on line. you want to reinforce the habit of committing to an interaction, which means following through.